
Tuesday, 24 February 2009
I'm not a schemer...

Monday, 23 February 2009
Two

One is too less and three is a crowd!! So "double", "two" or "twin" gets crowned.Ok ok.You really don’t have to scrutinize between the lines rather words, to admit that double words are part of our conversation. They are like raisins in a sweet or curry leaves in a spicy cuisine. They give the needed flavor or essence of tacit emotion underlying a dialogue. Sometimes they are genuine assurance, sometimes they are genuine irritation! Twins that hop and play in my daily dose of conversations are Ok Ok, fine fine, really really, mh mh. And then idiotic chari boksi, with her immaculate stupidity and ne plus ultra frolic started being sad sad, happy sad, sad happy and finally happy happy. For some strong unknown reasons, raisins in our conversations kept emerging ...more and more...! I found it be curry leaves or cashews though! Empowered with this vocabulary, tongue was happy happy because now it felt that it can communicate aptly what its friend, dumb heart intended. But you know..grammarians, purists, anti- redundants, and the entire realm of language grid doesn't share the same enthusiasm as us. This post is more than right context to pay tribute to the most popular double world "Win-Win". I'm sure everyone would have used this. But we use it very differently and this is how we use:Win-Win: Both the parties get the benefit equally (plz..don't bring in equity and play spoilsport)WIN-win: Emphasis on the pronunciation of only one WIN. It means one fellow gets the lion share and the other....you know it;)Isn’t it the right way to use words? So next time, if this pops out in your conversation use, do read in between the words and ensure its win-win if not lion's share!! bye bye;)
P.S: Lively, gay and dancing multitude from the land of Brahmaputra gifted me a unique evening. Melodious music in a lovely language (my brain recognizes only 20 sounds) soothed my heart and mind, bubbling with million feelings and thoughts. It was nice. I met my dear devil's mom!Terror got unleashed...heheh.
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Add life to your age not age to your life! Age is a matter of mind, if you don't mind, it does not matter! And my dad turns 60 this March ;) It is very painful to know that he cannot run, dance or do the things he used to without difficulty. Doctors told me his problem is not a disease but a physical condition or state of vertebra. Wear and tear of vertebra and the corresponding nerve- pressing sends a shock like pain to his head and also makes him go dizzy. Now he has to live with it, restricting his body and head movements. I was happy for he had come to meet me but was
terribly sad when I started thinking about his age and physical state and his life. He was a busy bee all his life. He had neglected his health and nutrition badly. I have never met anyone who lives with a character as pure and values as strong as my dad's. Many times I had felt it was impractical and unfit for this world but slowly I'm realizing the importance, its relevance and my ignorance. I really cannot express how great he is for me. This weekend, after the hospital visit, I had a very emotional and touching conversation with him after long long time. I wished it never ends. And when asked him to recall all his accomplishments in his life, his compassionate and humble words moisted my eyes. Making my heart heavy, his words commuicated something unique this time, about life, relationships, success and Death with capital D. I cheered him up a lot, i cracked jokes on age, life and on self. I inspired him and added "Why so serious?" For the first time, I roared with undisputed confidence what I would do and also that I was really proud of him. My maturity and confidence gave him assurance, i guess.
Saturday, 14 February 2009
Mesmerizing

Monday, 9 February 2009
St Valentine, Cupid & Bal(s) Thackrey
Even the Copernicus tells you that it is not the sun that makes the world go round, as intensely as any businessman. Apparels, perfumes, beauty products, entertainment services, gifts, books, theatres, music, chocolate industries and what not… have been encashing on this popular feeling n emotion since time immemorial. All this V day is just another excuse to pay a token tribute to this business-friendly emotion. Celebrators, either aware or the dumb-wits, are just consumers and form critical mass from demand side.
Lo & behold, here comes another aggressive set of EXPLOITERS (yeah, they exploit “V day” resource for political mileage), who proclaim to protect our “Culture” by stalling these V-day activities. And extension of this drama is formation of groups that are supported by the rest of the political parties. It seems their motto is “anti anti V-day” and want to gives roses for free in the city.
People of the second paragraph support V-day and would be more than happy if janta celebrates and indulges in festivities. Read as buying, using and consuming. And people in their neighboring (third) paragraph are all jet-set to create havoc for those who celebrate. And some want to act as saviors. But my question of interest is, during these times of recession, whom do you support if you claim to be concerned about India and her economy?
I would support all of them; it is because:
People who are for V day, definitely celebrate (let them celebrate in any way) by consuming either products or services. It adds to the day’s economic activity of our country. Shoots up GDP. So are my thumbs up for these cracked eggs.
Political assholes and their aide, who are against this, would surely need thousands of hooligans (unemployed loitering men) and months of preparation to execute their plan countrywide. This ensures that somebody gets employment, which keeps them occupied and fetches some lucre into their wallet. Unemployment decreases….Shoots up GDP.
On the V-day, people that paint the town Red and others who pain these Painters by breaking loose in public parks, ok ok sort of hotels n restaurants (do observe…they never attack Taj, Le Meridian, Little Italy sorts) and (wo)man handling the roadside Juliets and Romeos (yes, even Hir n Ranjas too). The consequence of this is snowball effect and is economic windfall for the country’s commerce. Doctors get more patients, drugs are sold more, more repair services, more TRP, pre/on/aftermath increase in media…and the list of spin-offs is endless. Shoots up GDP.
If you really favour country’s economic growth, you would support them all.
P.S: If you love someone, every moment spent in her presence is special. You would always want to gift her, pamper her or wtever. Any excuse chalega. So V-day could be treated as just another excuse…hehe. BTW, my sis, Kavya's birthday is on 14th of Feb.
Tuesday, 3 February 2009
Death & Forgiveness

He was his best friend. Whenever Karthik's stressed or dull, Vinay was the charmer that did a happy trick or tickled his funny bone. I don’t know much about Vinay for I had met him only once but now I know Karthik better. The bereavement of a loved one is the most excruciating feeling that one has to live with. Death is a sure part of life but memories are part of living. And the pain we go through is the smallest price we pay for those priceless memories. May his soul rest in peace!! I pray to Time to be kind to Karthik's family. Death laid its icy hands on my friend's family twice in the last six months. But...its a such a "thing" that made me think endlessly about it and understood lot about it. But it sounds too philosophical and abstract for a normal reader to post it here. All I can tell is that "Life" is too great and beautiful to waste on trivial, base and meaningless things.
I was pained second time, when this sad news struck me last. I constantly kept touch with him during this rough patch, I sought many sources to get surgeons to help his brother and I had believed that Karthik treated me as I treat him, as a "friend". But this "friend" even didn’t inform me when his brother passed away. He didn’t even message me, let alone call me. But he had called most of his colleagues (to be read as acquaintance). You may think that I am an idiot to focus on this matter at this time. But I feel, such acts are no less than a small dose of death for any real relationship. I strongly believe that acts express one's priorities, generally. Is it because I had expected (unsaid but understood in a true relationship) or is it because my ego was pinched or is it because my mind can see through the people, a bit lately? Now I have a choice to forgive him or kick him and throw him, mentally, to the plane that harbours "others" other than my trusted and special ones. A plane that has many seats and is usually crowded. I never expect anything from people on this plane. I will do, whole-heartedly, if I have to do, and forget it for this mundane majority. But, whom I treat as friends (true n real), loved ones (parents, siblings, cousins) and special ones (beloved or spouse), I expect and I strongly think I should. Though it is a paradox, that is truth, I believe.
As pragmatism advises, I will be a mirror to all these people. It is a choice. In Karthik's case, I chose forgiveness and gradually I forget. To forgive is human but to forget is divine!! I love people will all their failings and imperfections.
P.S: Betrayal, infidelity or "unmindful" ACTS in a real relationship is heavy cost of trust. But gallops at lightning speed and You are too great to take notice and spare emotions and time for these ignorant people and such trivial and puny things. That’s what death teaches us. And every thing has an expiry date as choice. True love, true friendship, real beauty and wisdom just choose to be eternal. Lol. It is mutual choice.