The other day,I was travelling with some ol' friends of mine and my newly wedlocked cousins.
All of them are are working in global enterprises.Some of them are managers and some s/w engineers.
After usual banter and pleasentries,discussion hit upon "MARRIAGE".I was taken aback by the way its percieved.I thought,atleast this,that everybody knew what i thought n understood about marriage(that sex is one of the important parts of marriage but not the 1 r 2 r 3 priorities).But these wise men[wome(a)n], with their wisdom buffeted my truths.
Some1 yelled that its legalized prostitution,and some other opined that its 2 much oriented towards satisfying animal instincts in us and some other told its some form of deal basedon caste,money and blaaa blaaaaaaaa compatibilities.Though i dont deny the fact that sex is significant in one's life n love(romantic form of love) i guess thats its overly emphasiszed and overtly pronounced in their concepts of marriage.
Whether its love r marriage its must b passionate but its not the sole criterion.These modern(pun) guys n gals are really ...............!on the other hand our parents bond in marriage was diametrically opposite to this.Their marriages were based on dignity,sanctity,traditions,respect,sacrifice and mutual compromises n adjusting.But neither that nor this concept is totally complete n true.Both r flawed n inequally balanced.Truth and meaning lies in the area between these 2.Marriage should b based on mutual love,mutual understanding of what makes the other sad r angry,mutual communication including whispering sweet nothings to scolding,screaming,teasing,mocking,joking,irritating and still knowing deep inside that ur love is precious to break it n go offf,respect for family system,unsaid but understood deep commitment to share life with that person come wahtever,Ya it shold inckude sex significantly and with full of emotional,physical,spiritual love,not just mechanical or instincts driven.
People should understand that inner beauty and Love are the most important elemnts . Plzzzzzzzzzzz , lets keep life beautiful n vibrant in terms of quality n real values n lets give proper places to all the notes of this beautiful song, let life be melodious ...
Indeed our discussion shed light more than fire!
Sunday, 31 December 2006
Thursday, 7 December 2006
whats my GOLBNU mean?
THIS IS ORKUTIZATION:is it /ist it not:globnu has nothing 2 do with this:
You are the same decaying matter as everything else. You are not the contents of your profile. You are not the cuisines you write about. Nor the movies you see. Or the music you hear. You are not the idea of your perfect date. You are not your best feature. You are not your testimonials :DWe are turning into zombie customers. Remember how google adsense works inside your gmail. If you write about a breakup, it will give ads on psychiatrists. If you write about somebody's death, it will give you ads on undertakers. For google, you are nothing. You are just a worldwide corporation's revenue stream...You have to give up. You are just another entry in a database profile. People add you as a friend, become a fan, accept you as their crush but behind you they might spite you.We are all part of the same compost heap... For the place of phone, they will scrap you. Instead of meeting you, they will send messages. They dont want to see you. They dont want to hear from you. Yet they want to communitize. Its futile. Because this social circus has already hit ground zero...You are more than a printout of your orkut homepage pasted upon your face. You have to give up.
guys n guys we all need to evolve,move towards different level,this is plastic life with mechanacial unctions,lets participate in the adventures of Human consciousness.lets thinks of HOLISTIC life where health,wisdom,ethics,true human relationships devoid of shams n betrayals, peaceful use technolgy,LOVE N humanity all blend,
GUYS all this is incoherent,it has nothing to do about golbnu.
find outwhat goldnu IS,if u do lets meet!
You are the same decaying matter as everything else. You are not the contents of your profile. You are not the cuisines you write about. Nor the movies you see. Or the music you hear. You are not the idea of your perfect date. You are not your best feature. You are not your testimonials :DWe are turning into zombie customers. Remember how google adsense works inside your gmail. If you write about a breakup, it will give ads on psychiatrists. If you write about somebody's death, it will give you ads on undertakers. For google, you are nothing. You are just a worldwide corporation's revenue stream...You have to give up. You are just another entry in a database profile. People add you as a friend, become a fan, accept you as their crush but behind you they might spite you.We are all part of the same compost heap... For the place of phone, they will scrap you. Instead of meeting you, they will send messages. They dont want to see you. They dont want to hear from you. Yet they want to communitize. Its futile. Because this social circus has already hit ground zero...You are more than a printout of your orkut homepage pasted upon your face. You have to give up.
guys n guys we all need to evolve,move towards different level,this is plastic life with mechanacial unctions,lets participate in the adventures of Human consciousness.lets thinks of HOLISTIC life where health,wisdom,ethics,true human relationships devoid of shams n betrayals, peaceful use technolgy,LOVE N humanity all blend,
GUYS all this is incoherent,it has nothing to do about golbnu.
find outwhat goldnu IS,if u do lets meet!
Friday, 1 December 2006
It goes something like this:
girl: "how can you know so much about women?"
boy: "i think of a man, and i take away reason ,accountability n commiment".
girl: "how can you know so much about women?"
boy: "i think of a man, and i take away reason ,accountability n commiment".
what we do in life echoes in the eternity"...
Choice is an illusion,created between those with power,and those without <<<>
Fortune smiles at some and laughs at others
I always tell the truth, even when I lie.
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