Wednesday, 8 July 2009

Thank You So Much

Malati Shah had been suffering from acute Ankylosing Spondylitis since 6 years without any treatment for the want of money and care. Her old and indigent parents helplessly witnessed her worsening condition. Disease had calcified her knees, fused her hip joints and spine, and made her immovable, like a rigid bamboo. If it was left untreated, she would die of ribs calcification sooner or later!!!
When I first learnt about her plight, I went numb. I felt strongly to do something about it. I decided to do my mite to better her life. I consulted doctors and inquired about treatments, hospitals and expenses. Dr C B Prabhu, an eminent orthopaedic surgeon, had agreed to treat her by performing Total Hip Replacement surgeries followed by aggressive physiotherapy sessions. It required approx. 6 lakhs INR!!!I haven’t had so much money. Then I approached my friends, cousins, acquaintance, my company CSR team SAPPORT to allow me to raise funds within office. I contacted some NGOs and also asked my friends working elsewhere to drive the fund raising initiative in their respective offices. I explained the gravity of situation and discussed the urgent need to raise funds from almost everyone know to me or known to my KNOWNS. I have reached out to as many people as possible requesting them to spread a word for immediate help. Everyone drove the cause strongly by taking the commendable lead. My office responded strongly. Donations, prayers and wishes started coming in from every corner. I kept getting cheques and letter from diverse places and from people across the world. I was overwhelmed by people’s timely concern, thoughtfulness, love in action and their belief in me.She underwent two major operations over a period of 6 days. Doctors were elated at her body’s response to the treatment and told that her recovery was remarkable. A week after surgery, Malati stood for the first time without anybody’s support after six years. She was all smiles and tears and was lost for words. While thank you word was more often in her speech, it was not less than a movie scene to see someone stepping down after 6 years. It was truly a fulfilling moment for all our collective effort.After 27 days of transformation in hospital, she walked her way back into life breaking the excruciating spell of diseased fate. She was discharged with elbow crutches. She must come for check up every two months for one year and further on twice a year for 2 years. Whatever money we are left with after paying all the expenses for surgery, hospitalization, medicines, transportation, communication, consulting, ongoing physiotherapy sessions, care-taker charges and miscellaneous, we have decided to give it to her for further requirements.
At present she is at her home in Calcutta. Doctors from there are guided by Dr Prabhu about the medications and daily physiotherapy sessions. She is able to sit, climb up and down the stairs without anybody’s support!! She can walk with the help of a tripod stick. Doctor tells that gradually, in another 30 days, she will become normal and will walk without any support.
I am grateful to each and everyone for their timely help and amazing support! I really cannot thank enough. It was an incredible concerted effort in my life. It was indeed great to have discovered so many friends in the process. First of all, I am especially grateful to Krishna Mohan and Suman, who did more than one can expect and believe and stood by me. I also would like to convey my heartfelt thanks Rajendranath Avvari (CA), Richard Franklin (Infosys), Gautam Chakravarthy (AOL), Harish Nekkanti (TCS), (SAP):Rathish Balakrishnan, Archana Sahay, Haresh Patel, Potluri Ramakrishna, Deepika Bhagath, Kripa Rangachari; (US):Vineel, Suma Lakshmi, Uday (HP), Karthik Naidu(NICE). And my special thanks to Mr & Ms MI Murgodi from Vasco da Gama, Goa.

Digital Copies of Major Expenses: This is how we spent the raised fund


Surgery costs+Flight Tickets (twice the same price as in scanned copy)+Transportation+Caretaking services+ Food and Medicine+Miscellaneous= 5.97 lakhs. The remaining amount is given to patient for her futher treatement and expenses.

Friday, 1 May 2009

Please SAVE LIFE


Reunions and informal alumni meets can sometimes really change lives. With contacts chain reaction, we surprised many seniors on phone and talked about their lives. Through some conversations I learnt about poignant agony of Malati Shah, 4 years senior to me. It took me some time to digest that. Several months of networking helped us to get her contact……..
Here is the heart-wrenching story of Malati Shah:
Malti Shah, very normal and healthy lady, was working as teacher in Calcutta to support her poor family. One morning in 2003, after three months of marriage, she found her body locked. She couldn’t get up from the bed, she even couldn’t turn sideways and she could not raise herself up. She started screaming in pain, she could not comprehend it. With tears and unbearable pain, she kept on trying to get up but in vain. Her husband and father-in-law tried their best to calm her down and make her sit but failed. She recalls that it was the most horrific event in her life; her legs, spine and hips were immovable the moment she woke up and she is completely helpless about her own body. Then she was taken to a local hospital and was diagnosed with Acute Ankylosing Spondylitis.
I guess, she might have ignored several indications or symptoms for quite some time before it stiffened her entire spine and lower body and got so painfully acute!! This was followed by disastrous blow. None other than her apathetic husband intensified her helplessness: that idiot (in-laws decision) just left her and called off the marriage because of her condition. Her parents, indigent and old, were shocked by the unacceptable episode and sank in despair. Her brothers reacted in a coldly strange way, warning her parents not to allow her home.
Just imagine the plight of a person buffeted so eerily from the very dear ones when she was all a stiffened body dejected by husband and life. She has been battling against worsening Ankylosing Spondylitis without any treatment for she is so poor that she has to choose between medicine and everyday living. She has no choice but to forget about treatment. It made her almost bed-ridden. It has made her TOTALLY dependable on old mom and older father, surviving through abject poverty.
Six years of excruciating life, still does not know whether there is an end to this dark tunnel. She still does not know when her illiterate and ignorant brothers would talk to her.. … Her body is slowly reaching a final rigid state i.e. when her ribs are calcified and they stop expansion and contraction, choking her to slow death. She cannot bear any more…! Even if it is delayed, her future will be dangerously dark if she loses her parents, as they are too old. She would be left with no one to look after her.
When I herad this, I was numb for a day!!!!
I decided to help her to better life and make her independent. I talked about my plans with my friends. I consulted doctors and inquired about treatments, hospitals and expenses. After lot of analysis, discussions and consultations, we have decided to get her from Calcutta to Bangalore. Dr C B Prabhu, an eminent orthopaedic surgeon, has agreed to treat her. On 5th of May, that is tomorrow, he and his team perform surgery (Total Hip Replacement) in HOSMAT. It requires approx. 6.1 lakhs INR as of now!!
My biggest concern is money. I do not have so much money and I cannot help her with the entire amount on my own. I have started contacting my friends, acquaintances and colleagues. And have also asked them to spread the word for help. My office also promised me to help to great extent. I thought to collect it from anyone who wishes to help her and save her life. I want to pool in as much money as possible for suffering Malati.
I request you, dear reader, to donate money to save her life. Please do help me. And do spread this news among your friends. To donate money, please contact me either on +91 9916103250 or zevinster@gmail.com